Tales of Girl in a Green Scarf

               Beauty Standards have long been ingrained in society, influencing perceptions of attractiveness and self-worth. However, questioning their necessity has become increasingly important in promoting inclusivity and body positivity. Beauty standards have reached such elevated levels that even if an alien were to visit, they would feel compelled to compete. Amidst creating and promoting products, we often extol the significance of inner beauty. While products promotion is necessary, people establishing rigid beauty standards can feel somewhat disconcerting. Let me clarify, my intentions hold no prejudice against any products or companies, nor do I seek to harm anyone. Nonetheless, I find myself taken aback witnessing a certain category of people in the 21st century, with AI at our fingertips, still entangled in conversations of judgment regarding beauty. I firmly believe that every individual possesses their unique and exqu...

  Before you wonder what the word means...it is a Japanese word. The sound of it seems so idiosyncratic as we've learnt another language. As fancy as the word sounds, it gained popularity so quickly that i started my own research on it. Turns out everyone has their own meaning for the word. So, here's what it is.                                                  "Ikigai"                                                   Iki  means "Life"                                                   Gai means "value or worth"  The purpose which driv...

Your brain is such an amazing part of your body. Especially, the Frontal Lobe. It allows you to explore and expand your limits. Honestly, there is no limit to that.  You think, create, make, analyze, judge, solve, build, destroy, cry, get depressed. All sorts of amazing stuff happens.  Giving up is easy.  "Saying this is easy", you might say. I am not just saying it. I know it. Worked out for me. What's gone is not coming back. Yeah!!! Hard truth. Money, time, moments, people.... "your actions, your consequences. your assumptions, your fault. your work, your success." That is not going to have even a slightest change even if Avengers try to go back in time. Quantum theory of time travel is not gonna work in reality. So buckle up. Get your top gears on and put your frontal lobe to use and make sure that's for good. Eventually, you'll know if it's good or bad by the end result.  Success + Happiness = End result How's that for a biology lesson :)  H...

How do you define Power??? As per me I say :  "Its the ability to direct or influence another's behavior or course of events."  I can relive the miserable events of my life or I can learn to embrace and move on with the best behavior by relying on myself. These are all things that can alter the course of your life.  Start relying on yourself. Stop expecting that people around you will help you or miracles to happen. Don't be afraid of making decisions. Yes you fail even after everything you did. Life knocks us down so hard that it becomes impossible to get up. People will judge you. Be prepared for every worst possibility. Motivate yourself. Take baby steps, ask for help if needed. If you are a believer, remember Almighty helps the person who helps themselves first. Weather or not I am a believer is a question of debate later.  That!!!!!!! is POWER and that's what I have. Achieving that state of mind takes a lot of hurt. Again, nothing remains forever. Touché....

Whenever i have a bad day, i crave for particular foods especially spicy ones. Or, sometimes I eat very healthy. Well...depending on the mood. I am a cup collector. So i have to have the perfect plate with perfect food, perfect drink with perfect cup and color of my choice and a perfect movie to watch. After achieving so much of perfection, the moment i take the first bite, i think about the people in this world who are hungry and in need of any kind of food. So, don't look for perfection. It is absolutely OK to not be OK (ahhh i think i just quoted a Korean drama name ;)).  Respect what you have, be thankful and happy. Rough days go puuffff when you remember to smile. Take care and Happy to Help :)

Hey lovelies!!!!!!!!! I am honey bee (not disclosing my real name). HRU???? Happy to announce that i started journaling..yaaaayyyy!!!! Excited. This blog is all about being happy. Along the way lets prioritize our problems, fears, concerns and come up with the best possible outcomes to achieve happiness.  Stay tuned for the content and hope you enjoy. Have a nice day...