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Healthy "competitive" Obsession

Greetings loyal readers!!! I trust you all  are  in good spirits. The motivation behind today's topic springs from a heartfelt concern. I've observed countless young individuals and dedicated mothers who, in their earnest pursuit of success, find themselves caught in the relentless tide of a competitive world, often losing their way. This post serves as a gentle reminder to us all, encouraging us to reflect on our roles as parents and mentors, and extend a helping hand to those who are battling the rough seas of modern competition.

It is no surprise that the concept of competition has become deeply ingrained in our society. We often hear the phrase, "It's a competitive world out there," and while there's truth to it, the obsession with being better than one's peers has taken on a new dimension, especially among mothers and youngsters. The desire to outdo one another, to prove one's worth, and to constantly strive for excellence can indeed push individuals to reach new heights. However, it's important to acknowledge the fine line between healthy competition and a detrimental obsession.

Mothers, with the best of intentions, may become caught up in the desire for their children to excel in every aspect of life. In their pursuit of wanting the best for their kids, they may inadvertently transfer their own competitive drive onto them. This can manifest in high expectations, rigid goals, and a constant comparison to other children. While the intention is to motivate, it can place an immense burden on young minds.


The same holds true for youngsters. In an era dominated by social media, where carefully curated posts showcase the highlights of life, the pressure to keep up with friends or even outdo them can be overwhelming. The competitive obsession is fueled by the constant exposure to others' achievements, leading young minds to question their own accomplishments and self-worth.       
       









This obsession with being competitive can have a significant impact on the mindset of kids and youngsters. While it may drive some to work harder and strive for success, it can also lead to stress, anxiety, and even mental health issues. The relentless pursuit of being better than others can erode self-esteem and create a sense of inadequacy when one falls short of these lofty standards.
                            

 
So!!! the question is, to what extent being competitive is considered healthy? Healthy competition can be a motivating force, pushing individuals to achieve their goals and reach their full potential. It can encourage personal growth, determination, and resilience. However, it must be balanced with self-compassion and the understanding that success is subjective. Not everyone follows the same path, and there's value in celebrating individuality and personal progress.
 
In conclusion, the competitive obsession is a double-edged sword. While it can fuel ambition and drive, it can also lead to an unrelenting pressure to measure up to others' standards. It is crucial for mothers and youngsters to find a balance between healthy competition and self-acceptance. Encouraging a mindset that values personal growth over comparison can help individuals thrive without succumbing to the burdens of the competitive race. After all, true success isn't about being better than others; it's about being the best version of oneself.

 


Take care. Happy to help :)

Adios!!



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  1. AnonymousNovember 6, 2023 at 6:28 PM

    Well explained and documented. Needs a positive analysis and right thinking.on the subject.

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